Tarot - Love Test

My romantic intentions

The intention of the Four of Pentacles is to maintain the status-quo. He or she is comfortable with where he or she is in life. When applied to relationships this is an indication that at least one of the partners is happy with things the way they are. If both partners are happy then there is no need to change things. When one partner is happy while the other isn't, conflict could arise.

The Strength I have to offer

The strength of the Hierophant comes from his system of beliefs. While the beliefs may be tied up in traditions and ceremonies, the beliefs do form the guidelines for living a good life. While not all beliefs are correct, finding the rules that best lead you to live a good life are often enough.

The Weakness that I have

The weakness that the King of Wands brings is his need to be the center of attention. While he is the master of his own destiny, he wants other people to know this. This lack of tact can rub people the wrong way leading to problems where there shouldn't be any.

Strength in partner to look for

The strength of the Queen of Pentacles is her dependability. This dependability stems from her desire to help others. The key to helping others is consistency. If you are consistent with your actions then people will know that they can rely on you.

Weakness in partner to avoid

The weakness brought by the Queen of Cups is caring about others more than yourself. Having great empathy can be a wonderful thing but it is always important to remember that you are also important. If you are finding that you are constantly nurturing others without any reciprocation, then perhaps you need to stop over-supporting them and spend some of that energy on caring for yourself.

What is at the heart of the relationship?

At the heart of your relationship is the Seven of Pentacles. As this card is about the fruits of your labour, it is suggesting that you should be enjoying the relationship you have built. Every garden has it's weeds, but if the crop is strong then the weeds will not prevent the garden from bearing its fruit.

Making the relationship work

To make a relationship work when The Ten of Wands is present requires a realistic assessment of the burdens and stresses that are impacting the relationship. When a relationship is under too much stress it becomes hard to find the proper path. By trying to lower the stresses that are attacking the relationship you can get a glimpse at the proper path that should be taken.