The intentions of the Four of Swords is to contemplate about the future of your relationship. Knowing where you want your relationship to go is the best way of getting there.
The strength that the Lovers brings is the knowledge that the union of two opposite entities can often result in something that is greater than its individual parts.
The weakness that the Ace of Wands brings is thinking that an idea in and of itself has value. While what you wish to do may be worthwhile, the value comes from the immense effort that is required to take an idea and turn it into something that is real. By not thinking about the work involved you may be overestimating the worth of your ideas. After all, ideas are a dime a dozen and that is probably a highly inflated price.
The strength that the Fool brings is the ability to find his or her own path through the world. While the path that is taken may not always be the most optimal, it is always interesting and will result in learning new things.
The weakness of the Nine of Pentacles is the discipline that it requires to create a nest-egg. It is a bit ironic that in order to gain future freedom you need to give up some of your freedom. Still, the extra security that being prepared for the future brings is worth the slight reduction in your freedom that the necessary discipline takes.
When the Hermit is at the heart of the relationship, then the individual must be maintained as well as family. Personal space is important to the Hermit so it is important that personal hobbies or spaces are maintained and kept sacred.
To make a relationship work when the Six of Swords is present you have to be willing to put the past behind you. This past is not necessarily associated with your current relationship but often is left-over baggage from a previous relationship.
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