The Hanged Man represents transitions. This is often an indication that the relationship is in a state of change. It is during these states of transition that the future of the relationship can be moulded, but only if both partners can agree to the desired shape.
The strength that the Chariot brings is the willpower and perseverance needed to finish the race. Winning the race of life not only involves in finding a path to the finish line but making sure that the path you are on is the one that is appropriate for you.
The weakness that Judgement brings is not wanting to accept consequences. Every action has consequences. Failing to deal with the consequences of your actions only delays the payment.
The strength of the Seven of Swords is the ability to keep secrets. Sometimes this can require some dishonesty, but if you use mis-direction and changes of subject prudently it is possible to keep a secret without lying.
The weakness the Devil brings is a tendency to being manipulated by others. This is often the results of temptation. The manipulators are able to take advantage of your desires and are using them to control you.
At the heart of the relationship when the Nine of Cups is present is wish fulfilment. This is about figuring out what your dreams are so you can make them come true. At the same time, you need to be aware of wishful thinking. Having unrealistic goals is almost the same as having no goals at all.
To make a relationship governed by the Nine of Swords work, you need to put the past behind you and focus on facing new challenges. Often this card appears when you or your partner are despairing about a mistake that was made in the past. It is likely that nothing would have changed the outcome. The past can not be changed so it is better to redeem yourself by making a better future.
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